Fast Moving Relationship

Hey Shaun!


I met this guy, Tj, through a friends boyfriend. Tj's really sweet, but the relationship is moving really, really fast. I met him on Friday, he asked me out Saturday, we became boyfriend and girlfriend Sunday morning, and Sunday night he told me that he loved me. How can he when he just met me? 
I kinda want to slow things down, because Tj is my first boyfriends ever. I'm 15. He's also the only guy who has ever liked me. If our relationship keeps moving this quickly, he'll be proposing next week!! Jk.
But I do want to slow it down. I haven't even told my mom yet!! Am I over-reacting? Has anyone else had a relationship like this one??


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Hello!


Well, what can i say... i thought this was a joke.. but then.. it's not the first time i have heard of someone whose only just met someone, fell in love and went straight into a relationship.. I like to keep it formal and professional on my blog, i want to give advice in an appropriate way that will not be amateur nor rude.. but when i read this, i thought it was rather funny that you mention the marriage being a weeks time with the speed the relationship, and then i wonder why you had accepted his relationship offer when he asked you out in the first place! If i am honest with you though, i wouldn't have expected someone to be so easily taken.. it's funny to read that he is 'really sweet' when you have only known him for like afew days, and i would hate to imagine you describing to someone you're love story with you're first boyfriend, it's rather silly, and very stupid!


Moreover, you have asked yourself 'How can he when he just met me?' well.. let me explain.. you have acted very desperate, he is obviously lonely, and well.. you were just a very easy target for him, it sounds to me like this is a doomed relationship (if you count this as a relationship, i would call it a joke though!).. 


My advice is this, tell you're mom, don't go so fast, and for goodness sake, speak to him! Get to know him first! Do you know what he is like with others? Can you actually trust him!? What was he like in the past? All these questions, and several loads more, need to be answered! I don't want to make you look bad, nor give you advice in a way that undermines you.. but i can't stand reading rubbish like this, love is very important, it's the most greatest and strongest feeling of them all! You can't say you love someone without knowing for sure! Stop playing around, and take it more seriously please.


Thank you for you're message, i hope i have helped you! 
Please feel free to ask for more advice! 


Shaun Alan Peace 
Administrator