Am I ready for a relationship, or should I stay single?

Hello Shaun

I've been talking to this guy, for 2 months now. He's super sweet, and his intentions are good. We are about to date very soon, but I like someone else as well, not as much though. I'm just confused on whether i should start this amazing relationship with someone i have an amazing time with, he makes me smile, we never get in arguments.. Or should I just stay single, and tell him I'm not ready (because I still flirt with other boys, because him and i arent dating yet)?

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Hello!

Right, when i read this, i had several thought's immediately enter my mind, which were 'how can you be ready to date someone you have only known for 2 months?' and 'why would you flirt with other boys if you are interested in someone?'... The point of this blog is for me to give you my honest opinion, it's up to you whether or not you follow up from it, but allow me to tell you where i am at with this...

You can't be so sure you love someone that you have only known for 2 months, you can only find out so much in so little time, you need to build a strong friendship and bond first, and if you're seriously flirting with other boys while interested in someone you want to ask out, you are clearly not mature enough, let alone ready for a relationship of any sort. I feel as though you will play with his feelings, and possibly be the one to break up the relationship when you get bored of him and want to go flirt with others. 

Furthermore, i can't believe you would have feelings for another boy, and still have in mind dating the one you are talking about on here, i wouldn't usually advice one answer, but instead give you several options, but for this case.. don't start this 'amazing' relationship you are imagining, you're obviously not ready. 

Apologises if this advice has in anyway offended you, or at all upset you, however, i will only be truthful in my opinion when i advise those who ask for my help.

Thank you for your time & message.

Please feel free to ask for more advice.

Shaun Alan Peace

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